Ep53 ♍⭐Grow your business using astrology & intuition with Courtney Wilder ♍⭐

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Alrighty guys, welcome back to another episode of the Miss Mindset Podcast. I am sitting here ready to go with like my notepad and my pen. So I'm so excited to learn from this beautiful, beautiful soul. Courtney welcome.

Hello, thank you so much for having me.

Oh, I've been looking. Well, actually we've been trying to get this happening for quite some time now, and I'm so glad we finally have. It's been a hectic year, hey?

Oh, absolutely, and I love that. It's just never worked out, and both of us had to cancel several times and now we're recording this on the Virgo New Moon, so I feel like it was the astrology was just waiting to align.

So here we go. I'm ready to learn. What does the Virgo New moon mean?

So today is a new moon and what that means is it's the start of the lunar cycle.

And whenever it's a new moon, it means that the sun and the moon are both in the same science. So at the moment we're in Virgo season.

So if anyone were to be born now, there would be a Virgo star sign, or a Virgo sun sign, and whenever it's the new Moon, the sun and the Moon can join in the slip in the sky, so they're right next to each other.

So it's when we feel the real potent energy of whatever star sign or sunshine that we are in.

So a new moon is a really beautiful time to turn inwards and set intentions. It's yin energy, so we turn inwards and we start manifesting or doing our minds at work or doing our attention work or our goal setting.

And it's not actually actioning those goals, it's more than inner work, so the journaling, the scripting, the writing, everything down as ready for as we move towards the other moon, cycles that, then we start.

Actioning down the track.

OK gotcha and So what does Virgo like if we are in Virgo? What is that specific? That's a particular energy or like theme?

Absolutely. So. Virgo is connected to the humble, holistic healer. It's also connected to organisations to do lists for business systems and support our health, our well being.

So it's OK.

Almost get analytical over our health and well being and also our daily routine and schedule. How are you showing up in your day today?

Are you nourishing yourself? Are you nurturing yourself or are you overwhelming yourself? Are you in more of the chaos rather than the organised chaos?

Ah OK, that makes sense. And it's so interesting. 'cause literally before our call I've been sitting here writing my outcomes list.

Uhm, I don't right to do this, but uh, right outcomes list. And that's literally what I was naturally doing today. So that's really interesting. I'm literally planning my month like that's so interesting.

Oh sorry, before we actually do dive into all of the things I just wanted to ask you to ask every guest before we start. What is something that you are grateful for today?

Today I am grateful for sunshine, so I am in Perth, WA like yourself and we have had the wettest winter in 29 years and Oh my soul has felt it but today.

The sun is out.

I've been down.

At the beach and it's just been so delicious.

So so I got that son.

2nd that I was like same thing it's been so beautiful and it's crazy how much the sun can like impact your whole mood. It's so so good. So I feel that.

With you.

Uh, before we do dive in something else that I've been asking everyone lately and this is part of my mission and I know that you're gonna love this.

Actually it reminds me of something that you've said to me once, so I'm asking what is something you love about yourself and I know you're gonna love this. And after you do answer something you love about yourself.

Can you actually speak on something you once actually taught me about being full of yourself and what that means to you?

Yes, of course.

Oh, what do I what I love about myself?

Let's say in my mind I'm like, oh.

My gosh so much. How do I pick one?

What do?

I think today.

What am I loving about myself today today I love about myself that I am.

I love that I'm just.

Like, uh, present doting mother. I've spent the entire morning with my beautiful son Willoughby, and we went down to the Bay.

And you know he's like me, it's such a such a water baby. And just like goes into the water and I don't don't worry about you know they're getting dirty or they're getting wet or anything.

Instead, I'm just.

Like it's all memories, we're making memories. We're making moments so I'm loving that about myself and Virgo is also connected to the mother as well. So maybe.

That's why that energy feels so potent for.

Me right now and.

I'm just like.

Yes, love my mothering today.

Yeah, oh, that's so nice to hear, especially like I hear a lot of my mother's.

So hard on themselves and really beating themselves up, they just can't get it right. Can't get it perfect and it's so refreshing to hear that positive self talk of I'm actually being a really good mom today. And that's really cool to hear.

Yeah, thank you and I think that's it's. It's it's the narratives that we tell ourselves, right? It's like what what you what you speak about is what you see.

So if you're like, Oh my gosh, I'm a terrible mother or I haven't been present. You're gonna notice the time taken, not present. And we're also human. We also.

Have to exist?

And live and work and do all the other things as well as mother. So if you're so focused on where that lack is, you're just gonna notice.

That lack instead of.

Like I'm such a nurturing loving mum, those moments where you are in that nurturing, loving energy you'll be like, Oh yes, I'm doing it and they will feel more potent than the times that you're busily having to.

Exist as a human?

Yeah, so true. What we focus on grows so that yeah that self talk so in.

Wharton, and just on that what was it that you? I remember you saying, being full of yourself is a really great thing, so can you.

Just before we do get into all of the astrology stuff, what is that? What does that mean to you? Being full of yourself being a really positive thing?

Absolutely. So I first heard that from Erica Perry.

I think she's.

At the Erica Perry on Instagram and amazing amazing.

So and they spoke about this being so full of yourself, because why would you want?

To be full.

Of everyone else.

And it just blew my mind and just cracked my.

Heart open and resonated with.

My soul because I was like, yeah, exactly.

When we were young.

We were told that being full of.

Yourself is the worst thing that.

You could be. It's also was.

About older, you know?

We're told an emotional woman.

Is the worst thing that.

You could be and it's that.

That resonance again. Who would I want to?

Be full of.

If not myself, I want to be wholly completely.

Fully myself, fully devoted to myself so that I overflow into the world around me.

Rather than like.

Making myself up of the expectations of anyone else.

That is so good and I remember you saying that it was a few months ago at an event we were out and I thought what a cool way to reframe that being full of yourself is the ultimate.

Like its authenticity and that's what we all want to be authentically. Who we are? So I loved the way you framed that.

Uhm, so I guess let's dive into Courtney and seeking Wilder. So tell me who is Courtney in this world and who do you help and.

How do you help them?

Sure, I'm so excited. So I am Courtney. My business is seeking Wilder and I support business owners and entrepreneurs and.

I support them to connect with the essence of their business, but also the essence of themselves. So I hope these business owners realise their comic path and also the karmic path of their business.

Because when we separate the two, there's so much potency there, and there's so much healing there and medicine, but also a ridiculous amount of abundance.

Because when we're sorry, enmeshed in our biz.

This usually then we're bringing our in stories and our wounding into a business that wants to naturally grow and expand.

But when we?

Separate the two and realise our business has its own yearning for growth, expansion its own comic path. Sometimes we just need to get out of its.

Way and always remove.

Ourselves from it a little bit to make.

That happened, so that's where I come in. I come in almost as a reflector to my clients to reflect back to them the magic that they have within themselves and within their business.

And it is like I can speak testament to that. We recently actually did a reading for my business birth chart and my own personal.

Me and it was so interesting and I'm sure we'll get into that in a little while. It was very interesting for me to hear the difference and how I need to step away and stop getting in the way of the the growth that my business naturally wants based on its astrology or its birth charts, so.

I guess to speaking on that sort of.

How did you actually get into astrology? What was your journey into this whole world, which I'm honestly so new to come and it still really boggles my mind a bit.

So what was your journey into astrology and how have you come to create such an amazing potent business out of it?

I feel like you're gonna laugh at this.

So I.

As of.

Well 2018 I started studying astrology but before that I would say a month before I started studying so August 2018. To be honest I thought astrology was a bit will shared.

Yeah, it's so funny I I have to tell you this. I told my partner that I was getting an astrology.

I was like, I'm I'm, I'm like when I was meeting up with you I I've got a birth chart reading and astrology reading for my business and he was like Oh my God, what are you doing? And I'm like no trust me when you listen to Courtney on the podcast, you will.

But so I love that you also were a little bit like this. It doesn't this is, you know, Wu and now here we are. So what was that?

Well, I always read about Virgo 'cause I'm a Virgo sun, it was just my birthday so.

This is my.

Season and and everything they wrote about.

Well, everything I've read about burgers was not me whatsoever. I didn't really connect with it, and then I found someone who would be my teacher, and Jeff Henshaw had a podcast cosmic.

Cousins and I started listening to that podcast, mainly 'cause I was interested in the cycles of the moon. Always been super sensitive to the former.

And I was at that stage I was running women circles and running full moon women circles. So I started to dabble and find out a little bit more about us, how the cycles of the moon showed up.

And then of course astrology comes into play when.

You start looking at.

The cycles of the moon and.

Then I found out.

That I was a Pisces moon and.

The second I found.

Out about what a Pisces moon was, I was like.

Oh, that's me that that is me. And then from there it was really strange. I was listening to a stranger intuitive you would say I was listening to just podcast and they were offering a mentorship for an astrology.

Come on astrology mentorship and it was a big investment. And for someone who wasn't really sold on astrology or didn't.

Know anything really?

About Australia at that point bothered by.

End of Pisces.

Good I, I was just like I've got to do it so I put the application in and I was accepted and.

I just starts.

This studying a mentorship with this incredible astrologer and I think they were in.

I think they were in LA.

At the time, so it.

Was, yeah, big commitment but I I loved it and I've never turned back soon.

Oh my goodness. So how do you? OK, what? There's so many questions. There's so many questions. What do you say to like?

Because I've been there and I still sometimes go, I don't know like I read I all I know really to be honest since I've started working with you. I know a lot more, but all I've known is I'm Pisces. I was born in February.

Summer, Pisces and every now and then you know you'll flick like magazines or you'll flick through the newspaper and you just go straight to Pisces and you're like, Umm, that could be applied to anyone. Though like or it doesn't feel like me so.

Where to from there? If you're that person that's like not, you know.

It doesn't seem like it's me.

Yeah, then do some research and find out your birth time if you can, and then look up like birth chart calculator.

There's so many websites that do this now. It's so accessible and put that in because when you start I say start with your big three so the one that you know like for you, your Pisces. That's your sun sign.

And that is our sunshine issues, that ego.

Also, it's ego, so of course it's the most famous one we.

Know, but then the moon is another one that is.

I love working with moon signs, especially when you start working with astrology because your moon sign is your emotional self.

It's your subconscious self. So while the sunshine is our conscious awareness and our ego, the moon is our subconscious awareness.

And our emotional self. And then we have the rising sign and the rising sign is your social personality. It's your face. It's what your rising up into. So actually when you should read a reading horoscope.

You're a Sagittarius rising, so you should be reading for Sagittarius.

'cause that's the energy that you will be carrying through rather than Pisces. But like little little little teaser here, I have something called the Soul Seeker subscription and in that I do tarot scopes.

So I pull tarot cards and give a reading for each sign, but in there I tell my clients to read for their sun, moon and rising. So I'm like.

The sunshine will be the lesson of your ego for this month.

The moon side will be the lesson your subconscious self needs to hear or needs to meditate on and the.

Rising sign it will be the energy that you're working with for this month.

Ah, that actually just instantly makes so much more sense, and I've always been confused about that. So the I guess coming from like a mindset perspective, like the mindset person in me.

If your emotional or subconscious mind really is the driver of, you know most of your behaviours and actions. Should we be paying more attention than two hour?

Moon sign

Uhm, I always say yes.

But that's because.

That feels true and feels in alignment for me. I was actually born around the full moon, so I have that energy of the full moon within me.

So I have the polarity.

Between my conscious awareness and my subconscious awareness.

So whenever it's.

A full moon the sun.

And the moon are in the polar.

Opposite signs to each other, so I feel that naturally, but I also noticed that for a lot of my clients when I start.

Getting them to work with their moon sign.

A lot more. It's that permission as well that permission for their their subconscious awareness gets that space to speak or to heal or to be moved through rather than be sold focused on just their conscious awareness.

OK, got you. Oh that's actually made things so much more clear. Now I need to go and look into what my moon sign in.

Uhm, question how on like how did you go from alright? I'm learning about astrology. I'm getting really into it.

It's like you've obviously gone from you've actually done it so fast 2018 to now and you are helping so many incredible businesses. It's just phenomenal. So obviously this stuff has been so impactful.

Before you started helping business owners, how were you using this? I guess ancient science and wisdom.

To help you or in your daily life.

Yeah, so I started.

Working with the cycles of the moon.

So I would.

Really work with the full moon and a new moon.

So with the new owner would set intentions and.

The full moon.

I would release and then have gratitude. So harvest now I would take what's working and take what wasn't working.

But to do so, I always.

Found where the moon was.

Showing up in my personal life.

So for example, we have every.

Single sign within us.

But what will?

Happen is whenever it's a new moon, that New Moon will be happening for you in a different place in your chart. So in a different area of your life compared to some.

Else so for example, for you in your personal life, this new moon is happening in your 10th house. So with this new moon it's the perfect time for you to be setting intentions, 'cause that's what we do with the new moon for your career.

For your ambitions for your achievements, for your public, standing for your public image, that's what your personal life is calling you.

To set intentions around and then for your business.

It's happening in the 11th House of Community Outreach.

Of goals of hopes and dreams for the future. So it's also no wonder that level up your life is opening very soon because you're feeling that cool around the intentions that you're setting for the new community group that you're creating.

Hmm, I see interesting so you would become very aware of moon cycles once you go into this and how OK.

So then you've gone from using it in your own life to going OK. How can I and you help what I've really noticed is like you help business owners too.

I guess see themselves for who they are personally, but then being able to disassociate from their business, which I know from personal experience and from working with so many clients who have businesses, it can actually be really hard to switch off and to know.

OK, I'm not my business. My business is turning off now and I'm actually really separate to it. So when did you sort of discover or come up with this whole? Like let's look at these two entities separately.

I started it's called casting. Casting a chart is when you look up a birth chart or you cast a chart for a specific day so you can cast a chart for anything like.

Icast transfer businesses.

But you can do it for specific days. You can do it for weddings, engagements, whatever.

It is and.

I started really.

Thinking about my business and how different my business was to me and how when I.

Dropped into the energy of my business. It felt very separate to me and then I decided to cast a chart for my.

Business and I.

Was like, oh, I wonder what the sun, moon and rising was for my business?

And the second I did that I got.

So much.

Clarity, so much clarity for my business and.

I was like.

This is so powerful.

Well, I would. I really want to.

Tell everybody about this, because why aren't?

We all doing this. This is amazing.

I'm I'm a Virgo sun, Pisces, moon, Capricorn rising. So I'm very grounded. I'm about being of service. I'm about being flowy and intuitive and a little bit psychic, but I'm also back. I'm a hard working, I'm getting.

Getting that hard work down. I'm a natural leader, but my business.

Is a Leo Sun Leo Rising Scorpio moon? So my business is all about being front and centre stage and being seen and being fun and being playful but doing it in a way that's going to transform people's lives. That's going to get them to go into the depths of themselves and come out with some sort of treasure through transformation. So it's a very different energy.

And it was so validating for me to look at that chart and be like, OK, wow yeah, when I'm stepping into this energy for my business, I can be like seeking Wilder can be massive and it's not an egotistical goal. It's just honouring the essence of my business.

Ah, that's so interesting and it really does resonate are so hard, and we'll get into that in a second. I wanted to ask you, 'cause that's just reminded me.

I did an exercise I've done a few exercises with you where we're really trying to.

Strengthen my intuitive muscle, so to speak, and one of the things that you took me through because I knew the specific date that my business was born. But I didn't know it.

Time, and so you've been helping me to try and tune into my intuition before we sort of do go into you know, the different birth charts come my business and my personal one.

How do you define intuition and how do you help people to actually tune into it?

Yeah, absolutely so.

Intuition is your inner knowing your gut instinct, your higher awareness, any any. Whatever learns and resonates with you, it's going to be felt differently for each and every single person.

So for some people it's annoying. It's annoying. Some people in it, so where there's some?

People they get.

Colours, some people they.

Get words, some people they get.

Sensations and it's however it's felt for you, is absolutely.

Perfect, but the practise I run through with you and I usually run through all my workshops and if you work with me is finding out what your inner guidance is.

So you're in a yes.

Or no.

So it can be so powerful just to 1st just ask yourself what is my yes. What is my nose you want to ask a question. A simple question.

That you know the answer is yes too. So for me I use is my name, Courtney.

Meant for someone else.

They might use something else, and you just really want to connect into that. No, you want to be a quiet in a quiet room.

You want to be by yourself. You want to have.

Your eyes shut. You want to be.

Breathing into your body and maybe it's just the slightest shift in your breath.

Maybe your breath gets deeper. Maybe it expands out more. Maybe you just get a a slight sensation, but it's having that awareness of the slight change in your body or in your mind or in yourself that happens when you connect into your yes.

And then you.

Do the same thing for no as well, so you understand.

What the difference is between yes.

You know, and then you start putting that towards those questions that you want to ask your intuition. So is my business birth time.

10:30 is at 10:45 is at 11:00 AM is at 11:01 AM getting as specific as possible and just starting to notice. If you're getting those yes or no.

Umm, so I have been really practising that so much since I've spoken to you and it's hard for me because I don't know if this is I actually have gotten really like my intuition lately has been really strong.

Crazy like really crazy. Like almost psychic things. I know they're going to happen before they happen and it's actually started to freak me out a few times like a lot, but to me it comes as an actual voice like it feels like it actually is mental.

I will. I can wake up in the middle of the night and it's like a message like a voice in my head.

And so, because I've been trying to connect to my body to get the answer.

That's where, like can it be something that you hear in your head?

100% a 100%. They don't. It sounds like the UM, clairvoyant clairaudience is what? When you have that here and there's another one.

There's so many of them, I think there's like 5 different ones and it's all the different sensations of.

Your how your intuition.

Speaks to you? Oh that's interesting.

So that's why I'm like it's perfect for you. However, it comes through for you is perfect for you, and it's not.

Going to be the same for everybody else.

Yeah, OK, so it's just knowing your own intuitive system and then tuning into it as often as.

We can.

Exactly every day, multiple times a day. I always tell my clients to start doing it with.

Food or coffee?

That can be really powerful if you're a bit of a coffee.

Addict is to actually.

Ask your body, like do I want coffee?

Yes or no. I've had so many of my clients and boy struck me. I had one the other day that she's like.

I asked myself a coffee question this morning and then I had a. They've made a really beautiful green marcher.

Instead, and it was so nice to start my day that way.

Oh, and I was like amazing.

It's incredible your like your body, your intuition knows what it is that you're desiring. It's just often you know our habits, our mind, overall.

Oh yeah.

So we start.

Actually asking yourself, or if you like me, super indecisive at a cafe. I always ask myself like I, I toss up between the three and then I asked myself. I asked, my buddy asked me intuition what I actually desire and it never fails me.

Yeah, yeah, that makes so much sense, although my answer would be yes all the time for chocolate so.

I don't know.

No, it's not always. It's actually just that I freaking love chocolate at the moment.

So, but it might be like yes, one piece and what's your intuition knows as well, but it it can have that.

When it desires it.

It'll be you'll cheque.

In tomorrow, and it might not.

Be a yes or in a.

Yeah, that's.

Weeks time it might not be.

Yes, because your intuition has been heard, but I found that.

Especially with people who.

Who eat or who deprive themselves of things. Their body is like. I never know when I'm gonna get this again so I need to have it all.

Now whereas once.

They start working with their intuition and honouring their intuition, whether it be with intuitive.

Eating or intuitive drinking, whatever it is there, but they would naturally be like oh.

Well, I'm not as addicted to coffee or sugar or chocolate as I once was.

So true and and in your business to like is this a hell yes offer or client or you know does this feel right to me?

So it's been really helpful to have a few of those tools that you've helped me to sort of connect with.

And and one of those was looking at the difference between my personal chart and my business is birth charts.

So I think the people listening they probably get a pretty good understanding of my nature and and miss mindset as a personal like as a business. So could you first like so?

My personal birth chart.

A little bit of information about that. My comic path and all of the things that come up there and then. I guess maybe the difference between me personally and miss mindset the business.

Yeah, absolutely. So we'll start with.

Your big three, because we've already spoken.

About those, yeah.

So you're a Pisces sun, as we said, so your conscious awareness is that Pisces so.

For you it's so potent.

For you to connect into your intuition, especially having that Pisces Sun energy, because you can.

That Pisces energy does connect you to your sensitivity and you for especially for a fine. For people born under the Pisces Sun, it's when they're connecting with their intuition. They're making decisions of higher purpose.

Rather than like running through the emotional overwhelm that can happen with Pisces sign because there is that hypersensitivity.

But your moon is in gaol.

And I so you're very adaptable. Your subconscious awareness has this adaptability tour also has this craving for connexion for talking for, communicating, for sharing.

It's no wonder that you do podcasts.

With having a.

German and ring. Because you're like, let's speak share.

Your heart with me.

That's so true.

Let's speak, let's learn more. I want to connect with you. I want to know what's happening and everybody else is.

Lives and then you have your Sagittarius rising. So your Sagittarius rising is that yearning to educate that yearning for knowledge that yearning to take in.

Uh, knowledge from all.

Different areas, maybe from all different cultures and then transform it into a teaching to share it. That yearning to travel, they turning to explore.

What it's crazy that's actually so nuts. Like literally. I yeah, that's crazy and I remember the first time you said that.

I was like wow, that's insane. The travel, the teaching, the thirst for knowledge, the real, the wanting to speak to people deeply and intimately.

So nuts, and it doesn't surprise me. Although you really helped me to see how Miss Mindset was actually a little bit different to me. Uhm, So what comes up there as a difference?

Yeah, let's grab Miss mindsets charge.

OK, so then you have miss mindset and this mindset is a cancer sun. So feminist mindset. It's about creating these safe containers, drawing people into a safe container to nurture them while they're transforming. It's an Aquarius moon, so miss mindset is about.

That authenticity and adaptability, but also looking to the future and being like this, is where we could be. Let me hold you in this container so that we can be creating this future for humanity, which is so incredible and getting people to connect into that radical.

Let's himself their authenticity, but what I love is myth. Mindset is also a Sagittarius, right?

Yeah, so I always say that you choose your business birth dates for a reason and think because you have that there's such such strong thirst for knowledge and education that came across in Miss mindsets. Birthchart Miss Mindset also has that yearning to learn.

More and then share with others.

Wow, so interesting and then something that you sort of said that that was really helpful to me was not to bring my personal ship.

You should probably set it way more eloquently, but like don't bring my personal baggage into Miss Mindset as a business because they are. They've got separate sort of comic parts I guess. So how does that play out?

Absolutely so. Miss mindsets karmic path. So the north node. It's this point for evolution is in Gemini and it's in.

The 8th house.

So it wants to create community and connexion and speak its truth, be heard and be seen surrounding transformation. It wants you to speak to the transformation that you create in peoples lives and also that then creating financial security.

There's so much energy in this mindset connecting to financial security. The point of fortune is in cancer. In the 8th house as well, so it's through creating these containers that you do in your group coaching. That then brings opportunity, which then brings financial security.

Umm so interesting and it was so the last session that we had. You sort of said because in my personal chart there was a little bit of shame or like shadow work to be done around me speaking my truth and a a little bit like.

And that is true. That really landed for me like I have found it hard in the past to actually speak up and.

Voice my opinions and and, you know, speak up and you were saying. Stop bringing that into Miss Mindset because you have to speak up.

If miss mindsets going to actually be able to flourish, so that was really interesting, like from a business perspective, to be able to differentiate the two.

Exactly exactly, and that's why I love doing birth charts for people for their businesses, because often we have these woundings

And then I see people all the time.

Like bringing their woundings into their business and then.

I just have to be like room interesting.

Have a look at the.

Chart and like that is not the story of your business, and you feel like.

It is because we feel our businesses are ourselves, but I think that the second you go through everything, so can you go through every planetary body and you really feel into the difference. I always say my sessions are so validating because that's what everybody says.

They're like, oh.

I knew that.

But I was not listening to myself or I had that awareness.

But then thought I was silly or thought.

I was stupid.

Or all the stories that we.

Tell ourselves where I'm like you.

Chose your businesses birth chart for a reason.

You know the energy that you called forward into the world. You also know when you have those pools. Those gut feelings leading you towards something.

That you allow your mind to talk you out of and doing the birth chart just validates those intuitive hits.

Yeah, it's so so true and so helpful. And and I know the other sort of side effect of knowing this stuff.

Knowing, and I think it can be so great that you are not your business, it is. It is a thing that you birthed, but it is not you and that could actually help so many women out there to sort of know when you know its work time or it's business time.

And now I step away and I'm at the beach and I'm doing my life. So have you seen that this has been really helpful for a lot of people to sort of stop with burnout?

And stop with over.

Absolutely. I would say majority of people come to.

Me when they when they.

Burned out or definitely on the way to burnout, or they're feel like they're they're missing something, or they're making decisions. That seems like a good idea at the time, or they're hugely successful, financially successful, and they're like.

It still doesn't.

Feel right or there's something missing or there's something lacking or there's.

Something wrong? And then when we?

Have this separation. They get that that sense of self. They can remove themselves and they're like Oh my gosh, yeah, I have my own comic path to.

Fulfil I have my.

Learn like things in life or I need nurturing.

Where I have.

My own desires for my life and.

It doesn't always.

All have to be about the business because when you give the business space space to be itself and live to its chart and it's truth, you drop into that and the decisions that you make are so much more potent rather than.

When you're so burnt out trying to bring your own stories, your own wounding, you're burnt out. Energy into your business.

Yeah, OK, awesome. And then does your business birth chart? Does your business have its own wounding as well?

100%.

Right so look out for that as a separate thing, like not your own personal wounding.

Right?

Yeah, it's separate, so where I look to for I guess the main wounding for ourselves and for our business is Chiron, and for it sometimes I will see that our personal birth chart and our business per chart will have it in the same house.

So it's almost like the woundings or the same.

Theme, but they'll be very different.

But other times they are vastly.

Different and for our business.

It's like that's where you.

Trip yourself up in business all the time, but.

It's also where you have the ability to create great success.

Because of the lessons there usually where we.

Trip ourselves up the most. It's where our magic lies.

Yes, OK, and just what so miss mindset. What is her miss mindset as an entity? What is the shadow work or the Chiron there?

I bet I can guess it. I bet I know.

Yeah, I I am already aware.

It's in the 5th house, so it's about collect, so it's in the 5th House of Creative Ventures.

Boost and it's in area, so it's you claiming your sense of leadership and with all of the offerings or anything that you create being like, yes, this is what the world needs.

I'm putting it forward straight away. I'm claiming this space, even if it's the way that it's never been done before. I'm trusting in at 100% that this is what needs to be shared.

Widely throughout the world.

Yeah, so the wounding will be maybe not claiming that power or not being not claiming your expertise and also trying to.

Two, I guess, shrink your goals or shrink the amount of people that Miss Mindset really wants to reach when it's in alignment with its higher self.

Right?

Interesting, I had a feeling it might be more around like found date like structure and organisation which is why outsource and got a business.

Manager to do.

All that stuff, but maybe that was my personal one.

That was your personal, but then also there.

Is satin where there is that sense of restriction and you do have Saturn in the 3rd house surrounding in Capricorn?

So there is that sense of restriction around the support and the foundation that you create to be able to speak your truth, to be able to reach more people.

Wow, Oh my God, it's so interesting. It's so so interesting. I can't wait to link you up in the show notes so that more people can book in.

And honestly, even if it's just a personal reading, it's so insightful and interesting. And if you're gonna learn something about yourself, then why not so?

Before we do wrap up Courtney, I've got a few quick rapid fire questions to ask you if you don't mind.

OK, let's go with who. If you could have a dinner date with somebody, anybody, dead or alive, who would you choose and why?

Yeah, yeah.

Uhm, if I could have a dinner party with anybody, I'm going to go with, I would have a dinner party with my dad 'cause he passed away when I was 17 and he was.

My biggest cheerleader and he was a serial entrepreneur and always would say that I was like deigned for greatness and would encourage me in anything.

So I would just love to be like, hey, look at who I grew up in too, because I was pretty wild when he passed away.

I was actually an underage stripper at the time, so it's been extreme, so just I'd love to have a chat to me like yeah, you were right. It turns out that I I did have a big purpose and it also.

All those things that you spoke to me about and tried to train me when I was young to do with business and like helping me so much now.

Yeah, and he's watching and so proud like I just know it, it's God he'd be so proud. It's amazing what you're doing.

100%.

You're helping so many humans and and that leads me to what is the legacy that Courtney is going to leave on this.

Oh my gosh, I love that so much. You know I'm all about legacy.

I know.

Just you.

Know so for those either don't know me this is my whole thing. It's about leaving a legacy and I encourage business owners to align with the legacy of their business and think broader.

So my legacy is that I want Australia starting starting with Perth because that's where I am to.

Be a hub.

Of intuitive business owners to have business owners who trust their instincts who make decisions from a place of alignment, who make?

Decisions from their higher purpose.

This and that abundance flows into the lives of those around them. Is that pay it forward energy when people start permissioning themselves to make aligned decisions, their clients and do the same.

Their staff then do the same.

The family members of the staff then do the same because you like what is that person?

Doing I want.

To do I want some of that.

Period it's beautiful. Flow on effect.

Umm, so true it's.

Giving people permission to live from their heart space instead of their head space all the time.

Yeah 100%.

Ah, that's beautiful. I love it. Favourite book or podcast or any sort of recommendation for people who are possibly on a little bit of a personal development journey.

Like say, via intuitive business was seeking Wilder point.

Yes, sorry good.

It's pretty great.

That's my podcast.

By the way, if you're on a personal development.

Me, I would say, well, the podcast that started me onto my journey with astrology, cosmic cousins with Jeff Henshaw is beautiful.

Jeff has just the most nurturing.

Voice and the way that they explain astrology is very simple and also just really.

A beautiful way to connect to and if.

You just want.

To just listen to a relaxing voice in the background, I recommend listening to that one.

Cosmic cousins I've written that one down already, so I'm going to go. It's actually funny. I remember the first time I.

Met you, it was like an hour away from 'cause we lived quite similar like that close to each other.

I I had an hours drive home and right after IUD presented I was listening to all sorts of astrology podcasts on the drive home. Couldn't find a good one though, so cosmic cousins. I'm going to give that a listen.

Thank you and last question for you is what is the message that you have for the any version of yourself. A younger version of yourself on your darkest of days? What is your message for little Courtney?

Just fit like.

There's so much more.

Like in my darkest times, I would think that like this was all there is, right?

There's nothing else. It's never going to get any better than.

This may as well, just like taken out, but just there's so much more than you can even.

Believe is possible.

And that your mind.

Is not the best narrator of your life. That thoughts on facts. Feelings aren't always facts and just to share what's in your heart, even if what's in your heart is super.

Dark share that as well.

Because there are so many people around you who love you so much and would be devastated if you weren't here.

And they want to hold you in whatever it is and support you in getting the help you need.

Umm so beautiful so beautiful and I'm so glad that you did follow your path 'cause it's just amazing what you're doing so thank you so much for being here and for everything you do it.

So beautiful to witness people starting to tune into themselves, their authenticity and their intuition. And I love that that's what you teach. So thank you.

My pleasure, thank you so much.

It's it's always an absolute pleasure chatting to you or it'll be their shots.

Likewise likewise, and I will link everything in the show notes so your podcast where to find you guys please.

Whether you're a business owner or not, go and book a session. 'cause Courtney is amazing and you will be blown away by the insight that you get into your life.

Well thanks doll.

Thank you so much.

I'll speak to you soon, bye.